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Rebecca Gibney Rebecca Gibney:

New Zealand-born Rebecca is one of Australia's leading dramatic actresses and certainly one of the most popular faces on Australian screens. Her TV and mini-series credits include Stingers, Kangaroo Palace and The Flying Doctors, as well as a vast catalogue of film and theatre roles. Her most recent TV role was as Jane Halifax in Halifax f.p., a role written especially for her, and for which she was nominated for a Best Performance Logie. Rebecca brings her forthright and lively opinions to our panel - hopefully keeping her co-panellists in order!

Rebecca has had a very personal battle with addictions. Her father was an alcoholic who suffered periods of violence and abused her mother throughout their marriage. He also died an early death at the age of 51. Rebecca says she started smoking at the age of 13 and, because of the chronic problem of her father's drinking, her smoking was tolerated by the family rather than thwarted. She also says her family allowed her alcohol as a child but no-one ever communicated with her about how to use it, so as a teenager she was drinking too much.

Rebecca says forgiveness and getting on with life has worked best for her, although she needed psychiatric help and therapy for two years to cope with the effects of addiction on her and her family. These days Rebecca does drink but is always aware of the need for control.



Jackie Engel
Jackie Engel:

Jackie is a psychologist and psychotherapist and director of Align Communications. After spending the last five years working with homeless youth, Jackie started up her own psychotherapy practice in Sydney, specialising in adolescent and family therapy. Jackie also works in the corporate sector, training staff and management in team-building and organisational issues.

Jackie works holistically with mind, body and spirit as well as embracing Eastern and Western philosophies. She believes everyone has the ability to be happy, and to express the potential they have to be responsible, creative and compassionate human beings.

Jackie sees patients facing a range of issues, including wanting to improve their relationships, increasing self-confidence, managing anxiety, stress and depression, coming to terms with loss, getting a sense of direction and life meaning, understanding children and teenagers, and addressing addictive patterns.

On the topic of addictions, Jackie has worked with many patients, particularly homeless kids, with addictive issues, especially relating to drugs and alcohol. She says many people become addicted to things as a coping method for an intolerable reality. The habit is formed as a way of coping with this intolerable reality, and it then turns into a cycle of destruction. She says it is always initially a way of coping with things, and usually reflects underlying issues with self-esteem or the result of some sort of abuse. The addiction then becomes a way of self-medicating.

Jackie says she prefers to deal with the underlying issues, rather than just dealing with the surface layer of the addiction itself. Often just helping someone to deal with the addiction will only result in the addictive behaviour being transferred to some other type of habit, for example, an alcoholic may become a workaholic when they stop drinking.

Despite an 'us and them' type attitude among many addicts - an alcoholic thinks they are different from a heroin addict, a bulimic different to a gambling addict - Jackie says there is a commonality to all types of addiction.

She says addictions take hold when we are not able to sit with ourselves, as we are. She says we are all capable of being addicted without realising it.

For more information on Jackie and her work, go to: www.alignonline.org




Derryn Hinch Derryn Hinch:

A veteran of print, radio and television journalism, Derryn is the top-rating drive host on Melbourne's Radio 3AW.

Derryn says he frankly couldn't give a shit about drug addicts, he only cares about the people whose homes they have robbed to pay for their habits. He says people have to take responsibility for their own lives.

On alcohol, Derryn admits he had his "Grizzly Adams" period where he drank too much, and it was very hard on the people around him. He says both his grandfather and father were alcoholics, and that he grew up with alcohol around him. As for shopping, Derryn says he loathes it! He says he breaks out in a cold sweat the minute he walks into a department store. He says he hits the shops - one store - every six months, and buys what he needs.



Tim Ferguson
Tim Ferguson:

Fabulously funny father of three, Tim is one of Australia's most prominent comedians. For a decade he toured the world with The Doug Anthony Allstars (DAAS). He then hosted the Nine Network's "Don't Forget Your Toothbrush" and starred as Frank'n'furter in the 1998 Paul Dainty production of "Rocky Horror Show". Tim is also an author, columnist and a polished all-rounder in political satire and debating.

Tim says he has friends both inside and outside the entertainment industry battling various addictions. Having lost some friends to heroin addiction, Tim says you're always left wondering if you could have done more for them.

Tim says his only addiction is to work, and that if he hasn't typed something or made a phone call by midday he's twitchy and grumpy!

Tim says he accepts that his children will want to experiment with drugs. He recently told his eldest son that it's inevitable that he will have an experience of drinking too much, but hopefully the next day he'll learn from it and move on.



Prue MacSween:
Prue MacSween

Best known to TV viewers from her appearances on Beauty and the Beast, Prue heads her own communications company and has been a fixture on Sydney radio.

Prue bravely tells the Mars Venus audience that she has a shopping addiction, having spent $17,000 in half an hour on a recent spree! She says she usually shops when she is bored or feeling emotionally down.

On alcohol, Prue says she's concerned about the marketing that goes with it. She says the notion that if you drink a particular fizzy drink or a take a certain drug and you'll be sexy and more appealing is dangerous. Prue says it seems as if the forces are against us, as it's increasingly difficult for people to resist such sophisticated marketing.

Prue also wonders whether we've become anaesthetised to the scare tactics used by government bodies to warn people off drugs and alcohol.



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