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Mars Venus TV - Episode 2

Intro:

Prue MacSweenIs Norm dead? Is the SNAG fried? Where have the real Aussie men gone?

Everyone is talking about this new breed of man called the "metrosexual". These guys follow fashion, look hip, and spend lots of time and money on themselves - not to mention as much time in the bathroom as their girlfriends.

We look at this "not quite gay" type of guy, and what he's done to the traditional Aussie bloke.

Our Panellists:

Rebecca Gibney, Alex Perry, Derryn Hinch, Prue MacSween & Kerry Armstrong

See panellist profiles


Ode to the Bloke
Resplendent in his flannel shirt, thongs and mullet hair-do, comedian Chris Franklin takes on our challenge as the blokiest of blokes to find out what is behind the fascination with metro men.

From barman to metro man
Metro man Craig King, head designer at men's fashion store Marcs, takes up the challenge - to transform barman and true Aussie male Matt Woodward into a real metro man. From head to toe Chris works his magic, and then brings Matt along to the show for us all to view the final product!



Makeover man Matt Woodward


Our Guests:

Sandra Lee
Sandra Lee:

Columnist Sandra Lee thinks all this is nothing short of ridiculous! She says men who shave their chests or wax are not sexy, just disgusting. It's vanity gone mad, and women just want their alpha male back. Real men should wear RM Williams jeans - a pair for good and a pair for casual - and maybe some running shoes and footy boots. None of these Italian slides and toenail polish! Sandra says these men don't even bother paying women compliments any more - they're too busy looking at themselves!




June Dally Watkins June Dally Watkins:

Over 50 years ago, Australia's queen of style started Australia's first school of personal and professional development, then the first model school and agency, and most recently, Australia's first business finishing college. If anyone knows about style, it's June. She says this newfound awareness amongst Aussie blokes of how they actually look is wonderful. If women enjoy making the most of themselves, why shouldn't men? She says Australian men have been too afraid to make the most of themselves for fear of the "gay" tag. But she says she could never understand this image of the rough Aussie man - it was as if he was going out of his way to be more blokey and rougher and tougher than he really was. In comparison, European men are charming yet know they are still very masculine. She says young Aussie men will have to lift their game or the female will increasingly take over - already they are getting better jobs. They need to be self-confident and look the part, and to progress jobs-wise you have to look as though you deserve the extra money.

To find out more about the June Dally Watkins school and college, go to: www.jdw.com.au

Jamie Mackay Jamie Mackay:

A partner at advertising agency BWM, Jamie is frank - he says the drive behind the metrosexual trend is sex, power and money, and the ability to attract the best partner.

As an advertising expert, Jamie says marketing traditionally macho products for the metrosexual market is all about permission - taking typically feminine products and giving guys permission to use them, thereby eliminating the stigma associated with girly things.

And he shows us the perfect metro products - male mascara, 'manscara', in a bottle shaped like a bullet; a perfume called 'The Stink'; and 'The He-String', a G-string for men to hold in the family jewels while eliminating that troublesome visible pantyline.

Jamie Mackay and his campaign 

for STINK



Amanda Ferguson Amanda Ferguson:

Our visiting psychologist says the metrosexual phenomenon is simply a case of men exploring their feminine side with some self-nurturing and grooming. Men have become more accustomed to paying attention to their grooming after watching the gay community. She says metro men are simply following a trend - some men are bound to be confused by it, others will take it to extremes. But fear not Aussie males! Amanda says there are still plenty of women who prefer to the tough tool belt image!

To find out more about Amanda's work, go to:
www.lifethatworks.com

 

Metro couples:

We meet two metro couples who proudly admit that it's the bloke who points the fashion finger in the relationship. These women can't even shop without their partner's input - and what's more the men love it!

Plus we meet some real Aussie blokes
proudly NOT metrosexual 

men in the audience

David Collins, the carpenter

David says he has no problem with metros personally but it's just not in his blood to worry about the finer things they way they do. What you see is what you get, he says. It's pointless using skin products in his line of work - it just picks up the grit and grime. David says metros are here to stay and they're clearly hoping to gain more opportunities in the workplace and with women. But it's all cosmetic, he says. Talk to a metro man and you'll find he's simply insecure and trying to boost his self-esteem.

David McConville, farrier

David's job involves shoeing horses, and his attitude to the metro man is therefore pretty down-to-earth. His wife is a beautician so David admits he does make an effort with his skin for his wife's sake. But he says the metrosexual phenomenon is just vanity and men trying to impress work and women. Since women now have equal standing with men, he says, you have to be far more impressive to get them. But you could be a total Greek Adonis looks-wise, but if you can't string two words together, forget it!

Clive Ogilvy, farrier

Clive says horses don't care what you look like! He says he refuses to conform to the metro male thing, but he became acutely aware of the trend when he moved from the country to the city. Clive says he wears checked shirts, jeans and riding boots, and a hat if necessary. He proudly does not own any shoes other than boots - a fact that would appall Peter Timbs!

The episode debates the pros and cons of the metrosexual man, and everyone makes their personal preferences clear, but in the end Rebecca sums up everyone's feelings by saying whether you're a norm or a snag or a metro or an ordinary Aussie guy, all that matters is that you're happy!

Dale Lewis tries a face mask

Tune in to Mars Venus at 7.30pm on Wednesdays on W for women, and again at 1.30am on Thursdays.

Episode One: Is Plastic So Fantastic?
Episode Two: Where Are All the Blokes?
Episode Three: Who Strays and Who Stays?
Episode Four: Does Fat Matter?
Episode Five: Bosses v Babies: The Juggling Act
Episode Six: When Too Much Is Not Enough


 

 

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